Strength To Change Your Story

The Elevation Church, Lagos, Nigeria

STRENGTH TO CHANGE YOUR STORY

The strength to transform your narrative is a theme we will explore this morning, particularly through the lens of one of the most renowned pairs of twins in biblical history. While some may initially think of Cain and Abel, it is essential to recognize that the most celebrated twins in the Bible are, in fact, Jacob and Esau. As we delve into this topic, I invite you to reflect on your own biblical knowledge and consider other pairs of twins you may recall. For instance, Jacob is a name that often comes to mind, and I encourage you to engage with your neighbor by emphasizing the importance of immersing oneself in Scripture, particularly in the year 2018, to strengthen one’s understanding of the Word.

In the narrative found in Genesis 25, a pivotal moment occurs when Rebecca, the mother of Jacob and Esau, experiences turmoil during her pregnancy. Disturbed by the sensations within her, she seeks divine guidance, leading to a significant revelation in verse 23. The Lord informs her that two nations are present in her womb, indicating that her sons will not merely be individuals but will represent distinct peoples. The prophecy states that one will be stronger than the other, with the older destined to serve the younger. This declaration highlights a profound truth: God acknowledges the existence of two types of individuals—those who are strong and those who are weaker. This foundational understanding invites us to reflect on the dynamics of strength and weakness in our own lives and the narratives we choose to embrace.

The notion that God’s plan accommodates a desire for greater strength suggests a collective journey towards empowerment. In the context of the biblical narrative surrounding Jacob and Esau, we observe a clear demonstration of divine sovereignty. Even before their birth, and without any actions on their part, God had already made a definitive choice regarding their destinies. This serves to illustrate that a New Testament believer, through faith in Christ Jesus, is considered a joint heir with Him, aligning with the lineage of Abraham. Jesus Himself identified as a descendant of Abraham, affirming this connection. Consequently, we recognize that the God we worship, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, distinctly excluding Esau from this covenantal relationship.

This distinction is significant, as it implies that every believer in Christ is inherently part of a group destined for strength and dominion. The biblical text reinforces this idea, particularly in Galatians 3:14, which articulates that the blessings promised to Abraham are extended to the Gentiles through faith in Christ. The preceding verse, Galatians 3:13, emphasizes that Christ has liberated us from the curse of the law, thereby enabling us to inherit the blessings of Abraham. This theological framework assures believers that they are preordained to walk in triumph and prevail over challenges, affirming their identity as part of a divinely chosen lineage.

The blessing associated with Abraham extends beyond mere words of encouragement; it embodies a profound divine favor that equips individuals with the strength and resilience necessary to overcome life’s challenges. It is essential to recognize that, through divine providence, we are granted access to an inherent capacity for triumph. This morning, I urge you to pay close attention, as I aim to elucidate a critical point regarding your spiritual fortitude. It is vital to understand that, spiritually speaking, you are designed to possess strength within your very essence, a strength that is reminiscent of the legacy of Abraham. Throughout life, many individuals encounter various trials, and reflecting on the experiences of the past five to ten years can reveal much about our personal journeys.

Consider the narrative of Esau, who was born into a position of privilege as the firstborn. This status conferred upon him not only a sense of entitlement but also the birthright, which traditionally granted him control over his father’s estate. In the context of biblical times, the firstborn was afforded significant advantages, including the blessing bestowed by the father, which further solidified his position. However, Esau’s complacency in his privileged status led him to adopt a laid-back approach to life, failing to recognize the weight of his responsibilities. In contrast, Rebecca, his mother, possessed a deeper understanding of divine intentions and strategically maneuvered to ensure that God’s plan unfolded, highlighting the complexities of familial dynamics and the interplay of destiny and choice.

It is plausible that she may have informed Jacob, prompting him to seek an opportunity to catch Esau off guard. Jacob likely hoped that if he could seize the moment, he might acquire either the birthright or the blessing. It seems unjust that one individual would claim everything while another remained vigilant and proactive, while the other lived in a state of complacency. This morning, I urge you to pay close attention, as there is a significant lesson to be learned. One brother was observant and ready to act when opportunities arose, while the other was passive, mistakenly believing that the chance had already passed.

This serves as a reminder that our life narratives are often shaped by our attitudes; thus, it is crucial to recognize the importance of maintaining a proactive stance in our endeavors.

In Hebrews chapter 12, the author reflects on Esau’s life, particularly in verses 16 and 17, highlighting the consequences of his choices. The text warns against becoming like Esau, who, for a mere meal, relinquished his birthright. It is noted that when he later sought to inherit the blessing, he was denied, as he could not find a way to repent, despite his earnest pleas. This account serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of our decisions and attitudes. As we delve into the scriptures this morning, I encourage you to engage deeply with this message, as it marks the beginning of a series that aims to resonate profoundly. Additionally, I urge you to commit to reading the Bible in its entirety this year; achieving this goal could be one of the most significant accomplishments you undertake.

I am currently engaged in a structured plan to read the Bible multiple times throughout this year. At present, I am participating in an immersive experience aimed at completing the entire Bible within the first 90 days of the year. Following this initial endeavor, I intend to repeat the process several more times. This immersion is a profound opportunity for spiritual growth, as it allows for the reading of two to three chapters daily, making it feasible to complete the Bible at least once this year, particularly for those who have not yet undertaken such a journey. The benefits of this commitment extend beyond personal enrichment; it enhances one’s understanding of biblical messages, not only from familiar sources but also from a broader context. I encourage everyone to consider this commitment seriously, as it reflects a dedication to acquiring knowledge of God. The scriptures affirm that a person of knowledge will gain strength, and since this year is designated as a year of strength, it is imperative to actively seek to bolster one’s spiritual fortitude.

In the narrative of Genesis 27, we encounter the story of Esau, which serves as a cautionary tale regarding the value of spiritual inheritance. Prior to the events of Genesis 27, Esau returned home famished and encountered Jacob, who was preparing a pot of red stew. In a moment of desperation, Esau requested the stew, and Jacob, seizing the opportunity, proposed a trade: his birthright in exchange for the food. Rather than recognizing the significance of his birthright, which was a divine blessing, Esau dismissed its value in favor of immediate gratification, exclaiming that he was on the verge of death from hunger. This exchange highlights a critical lesson about the importance of prioritizing spiritual wealth over temporary satisfaction. It serves as a reminder that one must not allow fleeting desires to overshadow the eternal significance of one’s spiritual inheritance.

When an adult, driven by various appetites beyond mere food, chooses to disregard the significant matters of fate and divine guidance, such a person may be deemed irreverent. This notion is exemplified in the biblical account of Esau, who did not choose to be born first; rather, his birth order was divinely orchestrated. However, due to his careless attitude towards his birthright, he squandered the opportunities that were inherently his. This serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of failing to recognize and honor the responsibilities that come with one’s destiny.

In Genesis 27, Isaac, aware of his impending mortality, summoned Esau to bestow upon him a blessing, which was rightfully his. Yet, Esau’s lack of readiness and apparent irresponsibility led him to request time to hunt and prepare a meal before receiving the blessing. Meanwhile, Rebecca, having overheard this exchange and recalling the divine revelation she received during her pregnancy, felt compelled to intervene. Her actions, driven by a mix of concern and perhaps overreach, highlight the complexities of parental influence. Instead of allowing the natural order to unfold, she instructed Jacob to seize the moment, raising questions about the ethical implications of her interference in the divine plan.

The moment the announcement was made that a blessing was about to be conferred by Isaac, a flurry of activity ensued. Jacob’s mother quickly orchestrated a plan, instructing him to prepare himself while she arranged the necessary items for the deception. This was not merely a spontaneous decision; it was a calculated move that had been in the works for some time. Jacob, despite his awareness of the moral implications and the potential repercussions of his actions, was eager to seize the opportunity to claim the blessing that was traditionally reserved for his brother Esau. Isaac, whose eyesight had diminished, was unaware of the ruse as Jacob donned Esau’s garments and disguised himself with animal hair. The moment of truth arrived when Isaac, sensing the presence of his son, was conflicted by the voice he heard and the touch he felt, ultimately leading to the blessing being bestowed upon Jacob.

This narrative serves as a poignant reminder of the consequences of missed opportunities and the weight of regret. When Esau learned that his blessing had been irrevocably given to Jacob, he was overwhelmed with despair, crying out in anguish for his father to bless him as well. The depth of his sorrow was profound, illustrating the emotional turmoil that can accompany lost chances. For those who have experienced similar feelings of bitterness and disappointment, it is essential to recognize that a new season is upon us. The message of hope is clear: strength and grace are available to transform one’s circumstances. As Esau lamented his fate, he was reminded of the significance of his brother’s name, Jacob, which denotes a deceiver. This story encapsulates the complexities of human relationships and the potential for redemption, urging individuals to embrace the possibility of rewriting their narratives in the face of adversity.

Esau expressed his deep sense of betrayal, lamenting that he had been supplanted not once, but twice. He recounted how his birthright had been taken from him, and now, in a moment of despair, he realized that his blessing had also been stripped away. In a poignant exchange with his father Isaac, Esau pleaded for any remaining blessing, revealing the depth of his anguish as he lifted his voice in tears. Isaac, recognizing the profound transformation in Esau, acknowledged the gravity of the situation. He explained that he had bestowed mastery upon Jacob, granting him dominion over Esau and his brethren, along with provisions of grain and wine. Isaac found himself at a loss, grappling with the consequences of his actions and the irrevocable changes that had unfolded.

This moment marked a significant turning point for Esau, who for the first time began to grapple with the concept of destiny. Previously indifferent to the implications of his choices, he now faced the harsh reality of missed opportunities, reflecting on how his complacency had led to his current plight. This realization resonates with many who may have experienced similar setbacks in their lives, whether in relationships, careers, or other pursuits. The narrative of Esau serves as a reminder that complacency can lead to lost chances, but it also offers hope. Just as Esau’s story took a turn, so too can the stories of those who feel they have missed out on their potential.

In this year of strength, there is an opportunity for transformation and renewal, suggesting that change is possible for anyone willing to confront their circumstances.

A woman may be listening to my words this morning, perhaps under the impression that her marital future is secure due to various circumstances. However, it is crucial to recognize that relying solely on these assumptions can lead to missed opportunities. It is possible that you have inadvertently pushed away potential partners through your actions, and I urge you to understand that lost opportunities can indeed be reclaimed when one is empowered. For instance, if someone has experienced a significant setback in their business endeavors, perhaps due to distractions or poor decisions, it is essential to remember that in times of renewed strength, God can facilitate the restoration of those lost chances. Even if you have made mistakes that have jeopardized your career, there is hope for redemption in this season of strength, as divine intervention can lead to the recovery of what was once lost.

Furthermore, the story of Esau illustrates the necessity of having a fervent desire for new opportunities. Esau expressed to his father a deep yearning for even the smallest blessing, demonstrating that one must actively seek out opportunities rather than passively waiting for them to appear. His plea for just a single blessing, despite his brother Jacob’s apparent advantages, underscores the importance of determination and ambition. Esau’s mindset reflects a profound understanding that opportunities do not simply present themselves; they require initiative and a relentless pursuit. This hunger for new possibilities is essential for anyone looking to advance in life, as it propels individuals to take action and strive for success.

Esau experienced a profound realization, understanding for the first time that while Providence may have favored him, he had squandered that blessing. This awakening prompted him to appreciate the significance of seemingly minor aspects of life, leading him to express that even a single blessing holds value, unlike many who disregard the importance of small things. His newfound respect stemmed from a history of being attuned to grander opportunities, which made him recognize the necessity of valuing the little blessings that often go unnoticed. As we transition to the next passage in Genesis 27, specifically around verses 39 and 40, we find Esau pleading with his father, Isaac, for a blessing. In a moment of desperation, he cries out, “Have you only one blessing, my father? Bless me as well!” This heartfelt plea underscores his yearning for acknowledgment and favor.

Isaac’s response to Esau reveals a deeper layer of blessing that transcends mere words. He tells Esau that his dwelling will be characterized by the richness of the earth and the dew from above, indicating a life of sustenance and abundance. However, the true essence of Isaac’s blessing lies in the prophetic declaration that Esau will eventually break free from the yoke of his brother. This notion of becoming “restless” signifies a pivotal moment of empowerment, suggesting that God intends to strengthen Esau, enabling him to liberate himself from the burdens that have constrained him. The imagery of yokes, rooted in an agrarian society where oxen were used for plowing, serves as a metaphor for the limitations imposed upon individuals. The reference to Elisha plowing with twelve yokes of oxen illustrates the weight of responsibility and the potential for transformation when one chooses to break free from such constraints.

On that particular day, the animals were fitted with a yoke around their necks, which served to bind them together. This yoke significantly impairs one’s ability to make independent choices, as it dictates the paths one can take and the companions one can have. When two animals are yoked together, their movements are constrained, illustrating the biblical principle that advises against being unequally yoked with an unbeliever in relationships or marriage. A yoke, in this context, symbolizes a condition or circumstance that is both oppressive and burdensome, limiting one’s freedom and potentially steering life in an undesirable direction. Isaac’s admonition to Esau, indicating that he must serve his brother due to his own irresponsibility and poor attitude, exemplifies how one can become bound by their choices, yet it also suggests the possibility of rewriting one’s narrative.

As we delve deeper into the concept of a yoke, it becomes evident that various factors can contribute to such constraints in our lives. A flawed belief system can act as a yoke, particularly when one’s mindset regarding destiny is misguided. Additionally, the inability to move past negative experiences can create a restrictive yoke that hinders personal growth. Often, societal expectations impose predetermined paths, such as the notion that the child of a doctor must also become a doctor, or that the offspring of a pastor should follow in their parent’s footsteps. These predetermined paths can ensnare individuals, making them victims of circumstance. For instance, if the wealthiest family member is dishonest and has influenced others negatively, or if a sister’s lifestyle leads others astray, these patterns can perpetuate a cycle of limitation and expectation, reinforcing the yoke that binds them.

The assertion being made revolves around the concept of a predetermined path that can often feel like a burden or a yoke.

In certain families, particularly in this country, there exists a prevailing mindset that prioritizes emigration as the primary route to success. This is often influenced by the experiences of family members who have found prosperity abroad, leading to a collective expectation that younger generations should follow suit. The illegal arrangements made for migration serve to reinforce this predetermined trajectory, creating a sense of inevitability that stifles individual aspirations. Consequently, many young individuals find themselves contemplating opportunities solely through the lens of migration, believing that their only viable option is to seek a better life in places like Europe or America. This mindset can be constraining, as it may appear that there are no alternatives available.

However, the narrative also emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s agency and the potential for change. The biblical reference to Isaac’s counsel to Esau highlights the notion that restlessness can be a catalyst for breaking free from these constraints. The passage from Isaiah underscores that the burdens we carry can be lifted, and the yokes that bind us can be destroyed through divine intervention and the anointing that fosters a spirit of restlessness. This restlessness is not merely a state of agitation but rather a powerful drive to explore possibilities and seize opportunities. The Hebrew term associated with restlessness conveys a sense of movement and dominion, suggesting that true empowerment comes from refusing to remain stagnant and actively seeking out new paths. As Isaac’s words resonate, they encourage individuals to embrace their potential and challenge the limitations imposed by familial expectations.

A profound transformation occurred within him, marked by a newfound clarity and strength that enabled him to comprehend the divine intentions laid out for him. This shift urged him to reject the dominant narratives that had previously shaped his understanding. Reflecting on the blessings bestowed upon Esau by Isaac, it becomes evident that the promise of dwelling in the abundance of the earth signifies access to plentiful natural resources. This notion resonates particularly with the context of Nigeria, where the blessings of both earthly abundance and heavenly favor are apparent. However, it is crucial to note that this blessing comes with the caveat of servitude to one’s brother, highlighting the complexities of such a promise.

The message conveyed extends beyond individual experiences; it calls for a collective awakening within our nation. There is a pressing need for a divine grace and anointing to envelop our society, a sentiment that is increasingly palpable amid the ongoing calls for restructuring. While there are signs of restlessness, it is clear that we have yet to reach a pivotal moment of change. The persistent yoke of oppression remains, as evidenced by the paradox of a nation rich in resources yet struggling to benefit from them. This situation can be likened to a farmer who, despite supplying produce to a fast-food chain, finds himself purchasing meals from the same establishment due to a lack of basic resources at home. Such a scenario illustrates the burden of the yoke that continues to hinder progress and prosperity.

It is essential for those present this morning to fully grasp the message being conveyed. There exists a divine anointing for restlessness, a unique grace and strength that is being bestowed upon this gathering, aimed at unlocking the destinies and hearts of individuals. To encapsulate this message, let us turn our attention to Genesis 33, specifically beginning from verse 7. This passage recounts the moment when Jacob, after a prolonged period of separation and trials in Laban’s household, is returning home. Both he and his family have undergone significant transformations, including marriages, which serve to illustrate the profound blessings that arise from a state of restlessness. The narrative unfolds as Jacob, anticipating a hostile reception from his estranged brother Esau, sends his family ahead while he remains at the rear, laden with gifts intended to appease Esau.

As the story progresses, Esau inquires about the large entourage Jacob has sent before him, to which Jacob responds that these gifts are meant to find favor in his sight. Remarkably, Esau, having prospered in his own right, declines Jacob’s offerings, stating that he has enough. Jacob, however, insists on presenting his gifts, expressing that seeing Esau’s face is akin to witnessing the face of God, as he feels blessed and favored. This exchange highlights a pivotal moment of reconciliation and transformation, demonstrating that even the most challenging narratives can be altered. The underlying message is one of hope and possibility; it affirms that anyone can change their story, regardless of past circumstances, by embracing the grace that is available to them.